If you think money can’t buy happiness, you’re not spending it right! At least, that is the conclusion of researchers Elizabeth Dunn and Michael Norton, two rising stars in of the world of behavioral science.
In Happy Money, Dunn and Norton provide an engaging and often entertaining tour of the latest research that shows, from the standpoint of personal well-being, how we can get the biggest bang for our bucks.
They explain, “By focusing on how to spend the money you have rather than how to accumulate more of it, our perspective departs from the obsession with chasing increased wealth in the pursuit of happiness.”
Their own research, and that of several colleagues, revealed the following five key principles of happy money:
1. Buy Experiences – Mark Twain was right when he wrote, “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do.” Scientific studies demonstrate that purchasing experiences (such as trips, concerts, and special meals) provides longer lasting happiness than purchasing material goods (such as houses, clothes, and electronics).
2. Make it a Treat - When something wonderful is always available, we tend to take it for granted. For example, we tend to savor a latte less if we have one every day rather than reserve it for a weekend indulgence. The authors explain they are not advocating self-denial, but rather looking for ways to view whatever we purchase as a special treat.
3. Buy Time - By permitting ourselves to outsource our most dreaded tasks, our money can transform the way we spend our time and free us to pursue our passions. Before making any purchase, Dunn and Norton recommend asking ourselves how it will affect our use of time. They write, “When people focus on their time rather than their money, they act like scientists of happiness, choosing activities that promote their well-being.”
4. Buy Now, Consume Later – The French verb se réjouir refers to the experience of deriving pleasure in the present from anticipating the future. That is because we tend to “derive more joy from things coming to us in the future than from things already received.”
However, our social norms and ubiquitous use of credit cards have encouraged the opposite mindset--“consume now and pay later.” By reversing this trend in our personal lives, we will not only save money, but we also reap the many rewards of anticipation.
5. Invest in Others - New research demonstrates that spending money on others provides a bigger happiness boost than spending money on ourselves. And, surprisingly, Dunn and Norton found that this principle holds true in an extraordinary range of circumstances including both rich and impoverished countries. Their research demonstrated that Investing in others can make individuals feel both healthier and wealthier.